First of all, it isn't really that I do not like Christmas, I just do not like the fact that I have to spend this time of year, as well as any other time, without Lezlie.
But, how do we survive what is coming up? Remember that they are still with us. It may be realizing something as simple as a tradition. Looking at Christmas lights, Lezlie loved to do that.
Stop multitasking. It is hard enough to focus on getting up and going but, grief creeps in and makes things even worse. Trust me on this one.
They say talking to yourself is crazy but, do it. Or better yet, talk to your loved one. Think of how they would love to do some of the things you are doing. Baking cookies. Making ornaments. And y'all know I use she every now and then because I am referring to myself and Lezlie.
Get lost in the moment. Do not feel guilty because you do not spend all your time focusing on your angel. I guarantee they will love the fact that you are smiling and for just a brief moment, enjoying life.
Put that phone done. Get off social media.
Stop avoiding things, places, people, etc.
There are grief triggers EVERY. SINGLE. PLACE. YOU. GO. Cope with them.
Breathe in and out all that peace,happiness and comfort you feel. Yes, positive thoughts are few and far between but, enjoy them while you can.
Luke 2:14 "Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests."
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