There really should be a handbook for people on what to say and not to say to someone that lost a loved one.
Really!
You never say, there's a reason.
God has a plan.
God needed them.
You'll get over it.
You need to move on.
You'll be okay. (my favorite, not)
You must have really been bad when you were younger.
People please, just don't say it if you don't think you should.
Theres never a reason.
God's plan does not include tragedies.
We will never get over it.
We will never be OKAY, just new normal.,
We will never move on.
We were not really bad and we are not being punished.
God's heart is breaking with ours and, he will probably be upset with us if we respond back in the same way you responded to us.
Children should not die. Planes shouldn't fall out of the sky. Cars shouldn't crash. Young children should never know what cancer is and, you should never say something that you cannot take back. Whether you feel it is okay or not.
1 Corinthians 13:7 "bearers all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things."
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