This is my favorite part of the day, where I can sit and think and go hmmm, yea that is the perfect thing for today.
People seem to think they are the only ones with feelings or, no one will ever feel how they do. Well, everyone has feelings (sorry for you few that think only yours exist) and, the last is right - only you will feel how you feel.
Yet, do not be heartless. If someone is having a bad day and they don't seem to want to talk, just say hey if you need me. Don't be that person that people steer away from because you also have the 20 foot tall fence around you with spikes. Be the person that you should be, care a little.
I have bad days a lot and I also know who to talk to about it. I also know who to avoid and I promise you this, I avoid them like you wouldn't believe. I will never tell them when I am having a bad day because I honestly doubt they care. Well, that 20 foot tall fence makes it seem that way.
Here is a piece of information that some need, yes everyone goes through things and the best way to get through them is to have your circle and talk to them. If you don't like talking well, you will always have a hard time dealing. I was that person before but now, I am not. I talk way more and it is getting way easier for me to do it. I know now who I can text, sit down with, etc.
Having friends means a ton when you feel knocked down and to those that do not know how to be that friend, I am sorry for you because life is lonely at times. It is even lonelier when you have no where to turn.
Child loss is sad. Friends can help you through it just like they can anything else that happens.
Proverbs 27:9 "Oil and perfume make the heart glad, and the sweetness of a friend comes from his earnest counsel"
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