Some parents are glad summer is over. Its back to school.
Remember this, it is different for a bereaved parent.
Yes, we get that you are excited about the school year but, every turn, every corner is a reminder of what we do not get to enjoy or brag out. No first day of school pictures. No tired kids after that busy first day.
No texts or phone calls from the college student telling how their day went to didn't go.
No groaning over homework. No frustration that it is taking forever to leave the parking lot. No rushing. No fixing lunches.
Yes, we grin and bear it but remember what is behind that smile, a river of endless tears.
Yes, we are happy for you and we won't you to share share share but, do not forget that we are not that lucky.
No after school activities. No band practices or football games to watch and cheer, no softball.
Please do not forget us during this time. As excited as we want you to be, don't forget our sweet angel that we can no longer get excited over for the next first milestone.
Happy first day back and I pray you all get to experience many more firsts and I definitely will pray you do not join this bereaved list. Its a long, sad journey.
Jeremiah 29:11 “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”
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