The reason I am doing this every night for a year is because I felt it would help me and maybe someone else.
Kind of like the reason I have bruises everywhere is because I'm pretty clumsy.
The reason you get sunburned is because you don't either apply or reapply sunscreen.
The reason your car is dirty is because you don't clean it up or out.
The reason you gained weight is because mcdonalds is easy to get to and cheap.
But, somethings have no reasoning and when someone says, well theres a reason you lost your child the next line out of your mouth may just be and the reason I punched you is because thats just STUPID.
Don't say it. Don't think it.
One thing that doesn't have a reason is child loss. Kids shouldn't get cancer. Kids shouldn't die at the hands of their parents, in car accidents, drownings, etc. No, they should be living life to the fullest, wearing us out with all the running around and making memories so at thanksgiving in 15 years we can share memories.
Kids should not be buried. We shouldn't have to have a college fund in their name. We shouldn't have to do things in their memory. We shouldn't have to wonder why. We should never pick out a headstone or casket, spend our extra money on flowers.
So, do not dare say theres a reason.
The only thing there is a reason for is our feelings, the reason is we lost our child.
Isaiah 14:27 "Nothing can stop God's plan for your life."
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