when dealing with grief you realize, some peoples attitude are sucky or plain awful. Before you say its probably because they have never experienced the loss of a child, think about the fact they have lost something. I am sure they have experienced the death of something yet, they are awful.
Most of the time, media posts are full of these type of people. I remember seeing a comment about drug testing Lezlie and Mallory. Thank goodness someone had the sense to remove the comment before I could hit the persons profile and give them a piece of my mind. But, that is proof that the world is full of people like that. God forbid anything bad happen to them though.
Sometimes, people speak before they think. Thats really most of the time if you think about it. People say things out of anger, hurt, etc and sometimes people say things because they are honestly thinking it. No examples needed here.
But, lets also remember that words hurt. Regardless.
I do not hold back much with these posts. I have learned the hard way that people come and go and sometimes, God has a way of helping you get to where you need to be and sometimes, people may not understand the why. That is okay because, we may not either.
Sometimes, God intervenes and helps make a decision for you. Regardless of how some see what happened, the truth is God stepped in. He has done that for me, one time when he make the decision to take my child and, we did not have to go to the hospital and make that decision ourselves because, it would not have been one that would've been easy.
Sometimes, God listens when no one else does.
Think before you speak. If you think that doesn't sound right, don't say it.
I can guarantee you silence would be more beneficial.
If you do not understand the way we grieve, do not even try because we probably don't understand it either. Everyone does it differently. Everyone has their own normal and that is okay.
Proverbs 11:30 "He who wins souls is wise."
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