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Don't apologize....

Stop apologizing for your grief, it is homeless love in action.

Whatever we are feeling, we are supposed to be feeling. Do not apologize for how you feel!!

The process of grieving causes emotions to flare. If someone expects you to put their feelings and needs before theres, you don't need them. You don't need that.

You don't have to smile everyday or wear one to make others feel comfortable or good. After all, this is grief. Feel what you are feeling or not feeling. Don't let others try and tell you how you should feel. No one knows what you need to do but you. Do not apologize.

If you get cards, gifts, messages, texts and do not say thank you or feel that you just can't, don't. Do it when you feel like it. Do not apologize for taking your time. This is your grief.

You have a new normal so stop letting others tell you it isn't normal. It is. It is your new normal.

Always remember your child would want you to be happy, smile so do it. You may feel guilty at times but, do not apologize.

You shouldn't feel guilty for not thinking of your child every single moment, it doesn't mean you do not love them still. It is good for your mind to wander or think of other things every now and then, it is good for your soul. So, stop apologizing!

Do not let anyone try and tell you not to express your grief, you aren't attention seeking. You are expressing your love for your lost loved one.

Do not apologize for how you feel. I promise you that those that do not understand or those that constantly criticize you, you don't need them. And as always, keep your faith because God will always be on your side.

Proverbs 3:15 "She is far more precious than rubies."

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The righteous perish, and no one takes it to heart;  the devout are taken away, and no one understands that the righteous are taken away to be spared from evil.  Those who walk uprightly enter into peace, they find rest as they lie in death.

Isaiah 57:1-2

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